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The Homeschool Decision

Is It a Viable Alternative for
Your Grandchild?

By Teri Brown

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When the Baxters* told their parents about their decision to homeschool, they received a decidedly mixed reaction. "We told my mom first, and she was very negative about it, saying that she didn't think that was a very good thing to do, they'd miss out on too much, etc.," says Laura Baxter*, mother of three from Trafford, Pa. "Then we told my mother-in-law. She was quietly supportive, just basically saying that as long as it was something we felt we could do, then it didn't matter to her."

While Baxter's mom has gotten over her initial negativity, she still is wary of the outcome. Her in-laws, however, are extremely supportive, and their warm acceptance spills over to helping with their grandchildren's educations. "My in-laws are supportive," Baxter says. "They often ask the kids what they've been studying, and they take opportunities to share things with them as they come up naturally in life."

Getting Involved
Baxter recommends that grandparents make an effort to learn about homeschooling rather than to just go by assumptions. "Spend some time with your grandchildren in their 'school' setting if possible ... see what they do during their day," Baxter says. "Don't criticize, but ask questions if you don't understand why they are doing something or how what they are doing is a 'learning' activity."

Tamra Orr, author of A Parent's Guide to Home Schooling (Mars Publishing, 2002), agrees there are many things grandparents can do to support their homeschooled grandchildren, but first they must conquer anyprejudices they have about this unusual form of education.


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