quick clicks

grandparents today articles

grandparents today q&a

message boards

research baby names

prepare a birth plan

content channels

ip channel rss feeds

read birth stories

read parenting stories

recommended books

e-newsletters

safety recalls

ip diaries

ip store

mom of the month

dad of the month

editor's letter

letters to the editor

Party Time

A Grandparent's Guide to Baby Shower Gift Ideas

By Jessica Williams

For those who are on a tight budget, don't know the mother very well or aren't sure what to get, be sure to ask the hostess if the parents have registered somewhere. Many of the baby-oriented stores now how computerized registries that help guests find items that can fit their needs. Here are some items that are typically under $20.00:

• Packaged clothing like onesies and undershirts;
  
• receiving blankets;
  
• Disposable and washable nursing pads;
  
• Many safety items like bath faucet covers and bath thermometers;
  
• Mobiles, night lights and other small nursery items;
  
• Rattles, teething rings and other toys;
  
• Baby nail clippers, shampoo, wash cloths and other baby-care items;
  
• Cloth diapers (these are also great for burp rags);
  
• Crib, bassinet and cradle sheets;
  
• Books to read to baby.
  

Diapers may not be personable, but they sure can come in handy. Be sure to find out if the parents plan to use disposable or cloth, and then buy them in the newborn size. You can also buy diaper wipes or safety pins. Diaper bags are popular gifts, so be sure to check with other guests before buying one.

Give gifts you think are wanted and needed, and remember that the mom-to-be will probably be gathering items herself. Most of all, try to choose something you will enjoy giving. If you really can't decide, maybe a homemade picture frame or baby booties would work better for you. Take her to a La Leche League meeting or give her a hand-made gift certificate offering three home cooked meals, prepared by you, for after the baby is born. This is a special time in the mother's life. Always keep in mind that love, support and friendship are the best gifts of all.