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Planting the Seed
Grandparents and Toddlers By Laurie Dove
To combat this, long distance grandparents can use specific tactics to keep a strong attachment with grandchildren, says Dr. Arthur Kornhaber, a grandfather and the founder of the Foundation for Grandparenting, a nonprofit organization promoting education, research and networking toward positive grandparenting.
- Use computers, faxes or traditional mail to keep in meaningful touch with a grandchild, Kornhaber says. One grandmother faxes her grandchildren a little note of encouragement several mornings a week. Or mail a note with a piece of chewing gum attached. Anything specifically addressed to the child will make them feel special.
- Telephone contact is important too, Kornhaber adds. Call at a regular time when your grandchild is not rushed, a parent is not harried about getting a meal on the table and people have time to talk.
- Videotapes and audiotapes. Cameras and tape recorders are excellent ways to establish contact with a grandchild. A toddler grandchild will treasure videotape or audiotape with a grandparent recording the family history, singing a song or telling a story.
Sharing Interests and Skills
For those grandparents who can spend one-on-one time sharing a hobby with toddler grandchildren, it is helpful to keep a well-stocked supply of craft items. One note of caution is to be sure to keep small items such as buttons and beads away from very young children. For a craft box that will keep an energetic toddler entertained, start with the basics. Include items such as construction paper, crayons, drawing paper and a glue stick. Depending on the age and ability of the toddler, grandparents may want to include rounded-tip scissors designed especially for little hands.
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