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Alzheimer's and Incontinence
A Caregiver's View
By Melissa Granberry
Though being a caregiver can be a lonely job, Kathy finds support in a variety of ways. She has an 83-year-old aunt who lives in another state, but who is very supportive. "She is still as erect as ever, and she's active and strong," Kathy says. "We lean on each other."
Kathy has made friends online with support groups and other caregivers. One of her favorite Web sites, www.alzonline.net, offers online chats and message boards. "It is monitored by doctors and other healthcare professionals and has conferences where you can call in with specific questions," she says. Kathy has also found the Alzheimer's Association helpful, as well as received support from neighbors and friends.
She also recommends all caregivers watch the PBS documentary And Thou Shalt Honor. "Every caregiver should see this," Kathy says. "You can buy it or just read about the stories at their site: www.pbs.org/thoushalthonor/index.html."
When asked about caring for her father, Kathy says that she is truly blessed, because the one thing she still maintains is her sense of humor. "It's all a mission of the greatest love you can have for a person," she says. "If you keep hoping and keep willing to ask for help, every now and then you will find a smile or a laugh. You thank God for the years your loved one was whole, and you hope for the best for both of you."
